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Wild weekend at Winnekenni Castle
Winnekenni Castle hosts two great events this weekend.
Wild Animal Kingdom Day on Sunday at 1 p.m. allows visitors
to get acquainted with reptiles and furry friends, followed by
live owl presentation. Admission is free for children and $5 for
adults. At 2 p.m. Monday, the venue hosts a free blues concert
featuring Matt Stubbs. Refreshments will be available at both
events. Winnekenni is at 347 Kenoza Ave., Haverhill.
The weekly leisure guide
for North of Boston
Intimate Country
Wynonna Judd comes to The Music Hall
for up-close-and-personal show
By Alexandra Pecci
think she’s really a mega star.
And to have her in this beautiful, restored historic theater in
Country legend Wynonna this really cool town with 200
Judd comes to Portsmouth restaurants, it just embodies
this weekend for the latest in what The Music Hall is all
The Music Hall’s “Intimately about: bringing you the very
Yours” concert series.
best in one of the coolest little
“Wynonna is an iconic coun- spots on earth.”
try figure,” says Executive
The Music Hall show catches
Director Patricia Lynch. “I Judd on the tail-end of a solo
It’s easy to
fall in love
with ‘Going
the Distance’
By Greg Vellante
The romantic comedy is quite
possibly my favorite genre of
film, yet equally the genre that
frustrates me most with what it
typically has to offer.
For the most part, romantic
comedies have been dumbed
d ow n t o
Movie review
PG-13 fluff
‘Going the pieces:
distance’ pop-songsturned1/2
out of four stars
that dish
up love as
nothing more than a happy ending with a few cliché complications along the way. Love is not
what most romantic comedies
depict, which is why the R-rated
“Going the Distance” comes as
such an inspired breath of fresh
Love is hard, brutal at times.
Timing and circumstance are two
of the strongest contributing factors as to whether a relationship
will prove successful. “Going
the Distance” is written with a
focus on just this type of a relationship; in this case, a long-distance romance between aspiring
journalism student Erin (Drew
Barrymore) and music producer
Garrett (Justin Long).
The movie doesn’t beat around
the bush in asserting the difficulty of such a bond. It highlights
a balance between budding love
and crippling circumstance with
such honesty that we can root
for Garrett and Erin, and sympathize, too.
These are characters so lovable
and veraciously designed that
their love seems real; Barrymore
and Long are flawless lovers in a
romance filled with flaws.
The film is driven by laughter
and love, more often than not
combined. When Erin and Garrett first meet and bond through
a night of beer, bar trivia, and
discussing the genius of Tom
Cruise’s “Top Gun,” their chemistry glows. For a minute, I
almost forgot I was witnessing a
Erin is only in New York City
for six more weeks after initially meeting Garrett, having to
return to California to complete
grad school.
The weeks pass and as their
relationship blossoms into love,
they both decide upon their
good-byes that the distance
between them shouldn’t prevent
them from being together. Cue
the complications: They rarely
see each other, airfare is expensive, and the time difference and
conflicting work schedules limit
contact to a minimum.
Erin’s sister (a lovely Christina Applegate) worries about
her, while Garrett’s friends Dan
(Charlie Day of “It’s Always
Sunny In Philadelphia”) and Box
(Jason Sudeikis) realize their
Please see review, Page 14
tour, which will wrap up in
time for her to head out on
tour with her mother, Naomi.
Judd has come a long way
from her modest Kentucky
upbringing. In the 25 years
since shooting to stardom as
half of the mother-daughter
country duo The Judds, the
singer-songwriter has won
five Grammy awards, penned a
best-selling book, and released
seven solo albums.
Fo r h e r n ew c o mp i l a tion CD, “Love Heals,” she’s
teamed with Cracker Barrel
Old Country Store in support
of Wounded Warrior Project,
which helps wounded service
men and women and their
Please see judd, Page 14
„„ What: “Intimately Yours:
An Evening with Wynonna”
„„ Where: The Music Hall,
28 Chestnut St., Portsmouth
„„ When: Sunday, Sept. 5,
at 8 p.m.
„„ How: Tickets are $65 and
$85. Call 603-436-2400 or visit
Labor of Fun
Party with the Italians at Feast of Three Saints and
the Lebanese at Mahrajan this holiday weekend
By Rosemary Ford
[email protected]
Saints, dabke dancers,
crispellis and kibbee: There’s
a lot to like about Lawrence
this weekend.
The Immigrant City again
hosts its Labor Day weekend
ethnic festivals: the 87th Feast
of Three Saints at Holy Rosary
Church at Corpus Christi Parish and the 38th Mahrajan
over at St. Anthony Maronite
Catholic Church.
The Feast started in the
1920s, when Sicilian immigrants began to recreate the
celebrations they grew up with
in the old country.
The three saints in question are brothers Alfio, Cirino
and Filadelfo, who died rather
than renounce their faith more
than 1,700 years ago. Today
the event combines religious
and cultural activities in a big
party atmosphere, featuring
food, rides , music and more.
Organizers from the St. Alfio,
Filadelfo and Cirino Society
Feast of the Three Saints: Saint Alfio Society members bring St. Filadelfo, St. Alfio, and St. Cirino out of Holy Rosary Church in Lawrence
Please see saints, Page 14 for the procession on the final day of last year’s event.
about the
Here’s what you need to know
about each of the events:
Feast of the Three Saints
„„ When and where: Friday night,
all day Saturday and Sunday. Events
take place on Common Street, primarily between Jackson and Union streets.
„„ What it’s about: The feast
celebrates the martyrdom of brothers, who faced torture and death in
third-century Sicily, rather than deny
their faith.
„„ Don’t miss: “American Idol”
contestant Ayla Brown in concert
Friday night; the Torchlight Parade
on Saturday, when the formerly mildmannered march to the intersection
of Newbury and Common streets,
shouting “con vera fede” (with the
true faith) and “viva St. Alfio” (long
live St. Alfio); and standing with
crowds when statues of the saints are
marched into the streets by about
two dozen men for a parade at 3 p.m.
Sunday featuring cheers and showers
of money and confetti.
„„ What’s worth the 5 extra
pounds: Heck, at this festival, plan to
gain 10. There will be crispellis, a cross
between a doughnut and fried dough,
made plain or filled with ricotta and
anchovies (those with a sweet tooth
can add powdered sugar); breaded
and deep-fried rice balls covered
in sauce; authentic Italian sausage
smothered in peppers and onions
on (what else) Italian bread; roasted
chestnuts; Italian ices; and delectable
cannolis, biscotti and other treats
from the local Italian bakeries.
St. Anthony’s annual Mahrajan: Joelle Bechara, 16, of Methuen The Bread and Roses Festival: It will be held Monday, Sept. 6,
dances with her father, Maroun Bechara, as the two enjoy themselves
at Mahrajan last year.
Labor Day, from noon to 5:30 p.m. on Campagnone Common Park, 200
Common St., Lawrence.
38th annual Mahrajan
Bread and Roses Festival commemorates historic strike
Sunday, Sept. 5, from noon to 11 p.m.
„„ Where: St. Anthony’s Maronite
Catholic Church, 70 Lawrence St.,
„„ How: Admission is free.
„„ What it’s about: An all-out
celebration of everything Lebanese,
including food, music and dancing.
„ „ Don’t miss: Dabke dancers
performing a traditional Lebanese
folk dance, as well as George
Maloof and his band, with their
selection of Lebanese and American standards.
„„ What’s worth the 5 pounds:
At this festival, what’s not? Fill up on
grape leaves, kibbee, falafel, tabouli
and an array of other Lebanese
delicacies executed to perfection by
This year on Labor Day, while
the citizens of Lawrence and
the surrounding area will not
In 1912, the mill workers of be standing in picket lines, they
Lawrence went on strike to fight will be celebrating and comfor better pay after their hours memorating the strike with the
and wages were cut by their 26th annual Bread and Roses
Festival. The event is from noon
„„ What: 38th annual Mahranjan.
„„ When: Sept. 4, from 5 to 11 p.m.;
By Jill Diver
[email protected]
to 5:30 p.m. on Monday, Sept. 6, at
the Campagnone Common Park
in Lawrence.
“It’s about honoring past struggles and the historical struggle
of the labor movement,” said Jim
Please see Bread, Page 14
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Dear Abby: My son “Clay” has
preoccupation with her two cats.
been married seven years.
Whatever blocks to closeThere are times I like to discuss ness have been created for
things of a personal nature with this couple are not likely to
him having to do with our fambe removed by his demandily, and I have asked him not to
ing affection and threatening
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These discussions have nothing your comment, “He may adopt
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a ‘kitten’ of his own.”) People
The problem is whatever he
turn to excessive engagement
tells her, she repeats to her
with animals because animals
whole family. I do not want
provide warmth in easy, reliable
our personal problems and
ways. Spouses would often do
other matters to be known by
well to watch what animals give
and offer the same things —
My other son has no trouble
especially uncritical pleasure in
keeping our talks just between
each other’s company.
us, but Clay says he and his wife
At the least, you could have
have “no secrets” from each
suggested “Hubby” open a
other. Abby, is it OK to ask a
dialogue with his wife about
married son or daughter not to
why she chooses the cats’ comdivulge things to a spouse that
pany and what he can do to be
have nothing to do with her or
equally appealing.
Julie In Richmond, Va.,
Confidentially In St. Louis
Clinical Psychologist
Dear Confidentially: It’s OK
Dear Julie: I’m sorry you were
to ask; it’s also OK to say no.
dismayed. If you read “Hubby’s”
When Clay married his wife,
letter again you will see that
she became part of your family.
he tried “opening a dialogue”
Now that you know your son
with his wife and got nowhere.
keeps no secrets from his wife,
She has infantilized the cats,
and that she leaks like a sieve,
which she calls her “babies,” to
the better part of wisdom would assuage her anxiety after her
be to stop confiding in him.
sons moved out.
Don’t you think?
While some readers assumed
I was “advising” the husband
Dear Abby: As a therapist and
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Beauchesne, former chairman
and current committee member
of the festival. “It also serves to
educate people about related
contemporary issues.”
The free festival will include a
variety of music, ethnic food, historical information and free trolley
and walking tours around the city
to highlight the historical sites.
Featured performers will
include Bread and Puppet, a
politically radical puppet theater
company, Grupo Fantasia, and
Bylli Crayone, a native of Lawrence, featuring Samantha Fox
and debuting their new hit song,
“London to Lawtown.”
“We have a food court of
vendors who have Caribbean and
Middle Eastern food and BBQ,”
Beauchesne said. “It’s festive and
happy. Everyone is out for a good
time. It’s a very family friendly
atmosphere. Families can bring
a blanket or chair for a lot of the
Beauchesne said the festival marks a landmark event in
American labor history.
“It included women mill workers, and strikers brought attention
to issues like child labor,” he said.
“It is known for the use of song by
the strikers as a means to bolster
their spirits. And it is for that reason we commemorate with musical
and dance performances on three
stages through the afternoon.”
Judd combines captivating,
superstar talent with down-toearth performances, which is fitting for a show at the gorgeous,
yet intimate, Music Hall.
“I’m thinking that Wynonna is
really going to connect with the
audiences. She’s a real people
person. She changes her show;
she doesn’t just play a set list of
songs,” Lynch promises.
“She’s spontaneous, very
much into audience interaction,
so I think this is going to be a
perfect place to see her because
the Music Hall is so intimate and
the connection that the performers feel with the audience is
Lynch says “Intimately Yours”
is getting really popular with
artists who normally play larger
venues, because of The Music
Hall’s beauty, history, acoustics,
and location. Later this fall, the
series will feature The Indigo
Girls, Art Garfunkel, Chris Isaak,
and other artists.
“This series is what it’s titled:
‘Intimately Yours,’” says Lynch.
“It’s a real opportunity to see performers that you might normally
According to Beauchense the
festival also represents Lawrence’s diversity, then and now.
“We have something called
L aw r e n c e H i s t o r y L ive , ”
Beauchesne said. “It is a forum
for labor history and contemporary labor issues, as well.”
Though this year’s festival hasn’t
yet happened, Beauchesne already
is thinking about a future festival
and how to make it bigger.
“We are two years away
from the 100th anniversary of
the Bread and Roses Strike,”
Beauchesne said. “We, along with
other organizations, are well into
the process of planning a major
celebration for a scaled up 2012
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decided to scale back on the big
Friday night concert this year,
to offer more entertainment in
the main parts of the feast over
the weekend. They moved the
Friday night event featuring
“American Idol” contestant Ayla
Brown from Campagnone Common to the bandstand.
“We hope people enjoy it,”
said Society spokesman Tony
The Mahrajan started as a
St. Anthony’s church picnic
and evolved into a celebration of Lebanese culture, food
and music. Church youth will
perform the traditional dabke,
a Lebanese folk dance. And
George Maalouf returns with
his band to perform American
and Lebanese standards.
“To me it’s like a father,
bringing his scattered children
together for a meal,” said Monsignor Peter F. Azar, pastor of
St. Anthony, noting that the
word Mahrajan means to rally
together for fun.
What: Bread and Roses
When: Monday, Sept. 6,
noon to 5:30 p.m.
Where: Campagnone Common Park, 200 Common St.,
How: Free. Bring chairs
and/or blankets for performances on the common.
Bread & Puppet Theater
Drum circle with Akwaaba,
noon to 12:15 p.m.
The Decapitalization Circus
& Nothing is Not Ready Pageant, 4:45 to 5:45 p.m.
Bernstein / Main Stage
Sweet Willie D. (Gospel),
12:15 to 1 p.m.
Itchy Feet (Big band jazz),
1:30 to 2:15 p.m.
Bread & Roses Award Presented to Ralph Fasanella, 2:15
to 2:25 p.m.
Local Music Spotlight (Bylli
Crayone, Show Divine, Boys R
Us, & Dramatik), 2:30 to 3:30
Grupo Fantasia with the
Mirabal Carnival Dancers, 3:45
to 4:45 p.m.
Carmela Teoli / History &
Labor Stage
Febo and Masada (Spoken
word), 12:15 to 12:30 p.m.
History Live (Section 1),
12:30 to 2:30 p.m.
outside of Society. Confetti and fireworks.
8:15 p.m.: Free concert with the
B-Street Bombers.
10:30 p.m.: Feast closes.
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everything brought about by
that one single line and carries
it throughout the entirety of the
film. Laughs came from my gut,
but more importantly, laughs
came from my heart.
That’s the true goal for any
romantic comedy. “Going the
Distance” goes beyond.
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way a person can be truly content is to marry his or her best
buddy is growing up beyond friend, my heart was warmed.
their level of maturity. These two That one line of dialogue may
lend hilarity to the film. Their be the purest, most perfect
witty back-and-forth banter is combination of words I have
written with the perfect amount heard in a long time at the
of raunchiness, while simultane- movies.
ously offering some of the film’s
“Going the Distance” matches
greatest insights on love, life,
and happiness.
“Going the Distance” is the
quintessential love story. It’s
honest. It is not cookie-cutter
perfect. And it moves the audience with its characters and
the feelings they evoke.
I adored this movie. When
Erin mentions that the only
6:30 p.m.: Kick-off procession.
8:30 p.m.: Tripoli stage (Common
Street) features DJ Joey MacQuarrie.
9 p.m.: Main bandstand (at Common
and Union streets) concert featuring
“American Idol” contestant Ayla Brown.
11 p.m.: Feast closes.
Noon: Feast opens.
4:45 p.m.: Dangerous Goods performs
on main bandstand.
6 p.m.: Accordion player Busty Faro
takes requests.
7:30 p.m.: Torchlight parade honoring three saints, corner of Common and
Newbury streets.
8:30 p.m.: U.S. Navy Band in concert
on main bandstand.
8:30 p.m.: Jimmy Geaney sings Italian
favorites on the Tripoli stage.
Midnight: Feast closes.
10 a.m.: Mass for the three saints.
Noon: Feast opens.
3 p.m.: Procession of the three saints
statues from Holy Rosary Church.
3:40 p.m.: Joe Scuderi and Russ
McQueen at the Italian tent.
4 p.m.: Bobby Vincent sings Italian
classics at Tripoli stage.
4:40 p.m.: In front of Society building
on Common Street, Stephen Savio sings
Sinatra and Martin favorites.
7 p.m.: Moment of Glory, benediction
Alastair Moock, 2:30 to
3:15 p.m.
Shira Erlichman, 3:15 to
3:45 p.m.
History Live (Section 2),
3:45 to 4:45 p.m.
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review: ‘Going the Distance’ goes beyond
see in venues twice this size up
close and personal in a superior
acoustic setting.”
Lynch thinks Wynonna will
have as much fun at The Music
Hall as the audience will watching her.
“I’m expecting that she’s
going to fall in love with The
Music Hall the way almost
everyone does,” she says. “In
fact, when Jonny Lang was
just here a couple weeks ago,
he said, ‘Who can point me to
a real estate agent? I’m in love
with this theater; I’m in love
with this town.’”
saints: Festival time
Dear Abby: I am a 16-year-old
girl. I recently had open heart
surgery and my doctor did a
really bad job at the “stitching
up.” My scar is oversized and
People look at me all the
time and ask me about it. I hate
wearing certain shirts because
of it. Why can’t people realize
this scar saved my life and stop
staring at it? Please, I need
some advice.
Scarred In Minnesota
Dear Scarred: People look at
your scar because it is different.
They do not mean to stare or
make you uncomfortable. A way
to take control of the situation
would be, when you see someone looking at your chest, to
say, “I had open heart surgery.
This scar saved my life.” If you
are asked about it, answer any
questions honestly. That will
take the mystery out of it — and
word will get around.
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sex, by the way) feels ignored,
unappreciated, unloved or
unimportant, it is not uncommon for him or her to seek
validation elsewhere. In other
words, I called it as I saw it.
Dine-in only. Kids 10 & under eat for $1.99 from
Mini-Mariner Menu selections with purchase of
adult entrée. This voucher must be presented.
Offer valid through 9/8/10. May be combined with
Wicked Cheap Twins or other discount offers. LET
Arts, Crafts, Food, & Music
Directions: From Route 95 take Exit 50
ET_ET_20100902_1_13 and 14