Dear CARE Supporter,

Dear CARE Supporter,
Thank you so much for making our annual appeal a
big success! Your support helped us to raise over
$14,000. One program participant, Tracy, recently
said “My favorite experience has to be my last
session. I never thought I would feel so good about
myself again. The support of my therapist was
excellent. I couldn’t have gotten here without
her.” Your support helps us to serve individuals like
Tracy and to impact the lives of over 25,000
people throughout southeastern Michigan.
We have two big events coming up soon. Our first is
our 19th Annual Parenting Conference on Saturday,
March 8th at the Macomb Intermediate School
District. This year Dr. Terri Orbuch, the Love Doctor,
will be discussing “Strategies to Strengthen the
Relationship with Your Child”. We will also have 18
different speakers presenting on a variety of
topics. I hope you can be one of the 300 people that
attend this year’s conference! Our 2nd Annual Bike
PATH will be held on Sunday, June 1st at Lac St. Clair
Metro Park. We are hoping to have 400+ riders this
year!
This edition of our agency newsletter will be the last
one mailed to individuals’ homes. We will continue
to publish our quarterly newsletter and send it out
through email. To sign up for the digital copy,
please visit www.careofsem.com/newsletter/. We
will still be printing and delivering copies to schools,
libraries, and other community sites. You can also
stay connected with us on Facebook.
Thank you,
Monique Stanton
President & CEO
(L to R) Betty Risher, Emily Wright, Curt Harder and
Harry Kalogerakos.
The word discipline comes from a Latin word that
means to instruct a person to follow a particular
code of conduct. When we punish children by yelling, spanking, or taking privileges away, we stop
misbehavior temporarily but we don’t teach them
what to do instead. They will repeat the same misbehavior which leads to frustration for us and them.
Consequences which are related to misbehavior
teach children the rules of society. Children will
tend to accept or at least understand these rules
which will lead to less power struggles and revenge.
When there are less power struggles, instruction can
take place.
Natural consequences occur without parental involvement. Examples include: if the child doesn’t
eat their dinner, he will be hungry before bedtime; if
a child goes out in the rain without a
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raincoat or boots, he will get wet.
Sunday, June1st, 2014
9:00 am - 2:00 pm
Lake St. Clair Metropark
25 Mile Advanced Ride!
10 Mile Athletic Ride!
2 Mile Family Friendly Ride!
Bicycle Parade!
Raffles, Prizes, Children’s Activities, Vendors,
Refreshments & MORE!!
Calling all Volunteers!
We need your help to make Bike PATH
Safe & Successful.
To register, volunteer or learn more about sponsoring
the event visit www.careofsem.com. For more
information contact Meghan at 586.541.2273 ext. 214
or [email protected]
However, some consequences are not safe for children to learn on their own. In those instances parents need to create logical consequences. Logical
consequences are created and help parents model
respect. Children who feel respected feel good
about themselves; and when they do, parents will
see respect reflected back to them. It’s important
to “separate the deed from the doer” by creating
consequences that are related to misbehavior instead of making children suffer to learn the rules.
We can do this by asking ourselves, “What do I want
my child to learn at this moment?” If you want your
child to learn to be responsible, you may choose not
to run his forgotten homework up to school as you
have in the past. You may let your child learn from
the logical consequence of receiving a lower grade
by turning in their homework late. If you want your
child to learn not to run in the street, the logical
consequences would allow them to play in a fenced
backyard until they can understand the importance
of staying safe near a busy street. Spanking a two
year old for running towards the street only teaches
the child that the world is not safe to explore. Finally, set limits but give choices within those limits. For
instance, “You can do your homework after school
or after dinner, you decide.”
Feeling empowered to make choices and
feeling respected helps to create an
atmosphere of cooperation.
~Teresa Sandner, Parent Education Specialist
CARE of Southeastern Michigan
Raffle tickets are $10 and go on sale March 1st.
For more information or to be added to the
presale list please contact Meghan at
[email protected] or 586.218.5269.
Raffle tickets will be sold at the
Parenting Conference on
Saturday, March 8th .
Workshop Topics :
ABCs & 123s of Learning Disabilities
Become a Love and Logic Parent
Boys and Girls Learn Differently
Bullying: A Healthcare Imperative
College Planning
Digital Citizenship for Parents
Disciplined Parenting & Confident Children
Behavioral DNA
Effective Discipline
Financial Management and Kids
Mentoring Girls & Inspiring Sisterhood
Parenting Teenage Boys
Raising Young Readers
Safe Baby Macomb
Teens - “Living Above the Influence”
When Children Self-Injure: What Parents Should Know
You are What You Eat
Registration
586.541.2273
www.careofsem.com
Sponsors
Paula Kircos
Emilie MacNeil
Kathy Rager
Lucia Smith
Monique Stanton
Patricia Steele-Kefgen
Apple Annies Kitchens
Heather Battaglia
Joelene Beckett
Karen Beger
Big Family Of Michigan
Blue Cross/Blue Shield Of Michigan
Rachel Busby
Carol Altman
Jessica Catalano
Mike and Wendy Corrion
CSIG Holdings
Del Taco Roseville
Nicole Dessinger-Flynn
Detroit News Helping Hand Fund
Bethany Dimmig
Denise Dorsz
Courtney Dusseau
Ana Ebright
First State Bank
John and Carolyn Fredal
Dana and Sharon Gire
Good Shepherd Lutheran
Bethanne Hetner
Gertrude Hoeft
Tia Hurchalla
Independence Village of Aurora
Independence Village of Avon Lake
Independence Village of Brighton Valley
Independence Village of Frankenmuth
Independence Village of Grand Ledge
Independence Village of Midland
Independence Village of Petoskey
Independence Village of Plymouth
Independence Village of Waterstone
Independence Village Of White Lake
Vickie James
Harry & Jackie Kalogerakos
Rosetta Lynn Karnes
Rosella Kiley
Meghan Kindsvater
King Venture, INC.
Carol Laske
Legal Strategies P.C.
The Marshall Mathers Foundation
Karen Massucci
Patrick McLogan
Michigan First Foundation
Karen Leppanen Miller
William & Rosemary Nebel
Parisian Community Shopping Day
Sara Perron
PNC Bank
Victor & Anna Ptasznik
Andrea Rakowicz
Janet Reed
Elizabeth Risher
David Saad
Geraldine Scaduto
Kristina Schmidgall
Katherine Sinicropi
James E Skelton
Debbie Smith
Matthew Smith
Robin Smith
St James Lutheran Church
St. Blase Catholic Church
Lisa Stemple
Stoney Creek Recovery-Sharon Ranke
Nancy and John Temelko
Thomson Reuters
George Tohme
United Way Of Metropolitan Dallas, Inc.
Denise Warren
Patsy & Dewitt White
Emily Wright
Zion United Church Of Christ
Memorials
Garbarino Memorial Fund
Robert Galan
Janice Garbarino
Margaret Garbarino
Haithcock Household
invited to our Annual Dinner Meeting. All
donations are 100% tax deductible and benefit
CARE’s family focused programming.
Become a Prominent Supporter Today!
The Board of Directors, staff, volunteers and clients
at CARE of Southeastern Michigan are very excited
to announce the start of the new “Leadership
Circle.” The Leadership Circle is a recognition level
for donors and supporters of the organizations
mission. In fiscal year 2012-2013 CARE was able to
serve over 25,000 individuals because of the
community’s continuous support.
Being a member of the Leadership Circle will
provide contributors with special recognition in our
agency newsletter, on our website and in our annual
report. Leadership Circle Supporters will also be
The Leadership Circle will include supporters
that have provided CARE with monetary donations accumulating $1,000 and above over the
course of 2014. This could be a one time gift, or a
pledge to give during the 12 month period.
If you would like to show your commitment as
being a donor in the “Leadership Circle,” please
visit www.careofsem.com. If you have questions
or would like to make your pledge please contact
CARE’s Fund Development Manager, Meghan
Kindsvater, at [email protected] or
586.541.5269.
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CARE of Southeastern Michigan’s mission is to educate,
link and support individuals, families, businesses and
communities affected by family concerns, workplace
challenges, mental health conditions and the misuse of
alcohol, tobacco, and other drugs.
Federal, state and local funding has been provided through
Macomb County Community Mental Health/Office of
Substance Abuse and other funding sources to support
project costs.
Recipients of substance use services have rights protected by state and
federal law and promulgated rules. For information, contact CARE of
Southeastern Michigan Recipient Rights Advisor, 31900 Utica Road,
MI 48026, 586.541.2273 or State Recipient Rights Coordinator, P.O.
Box 30664, Lansing, Michigan 48909.
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